The topic of adopting special needs children is something I'd like to tackle on my clubfoot website as it is becoming more and more popular for American families to seek out children from other countries who have clubfoot or some other special need, deformity or disability (mental or physical).
While a very noble and honorable venture, it certainly is not one to be taken lightly, nor is it a task for the feint of heart as struggling through the red tape and financial costs can get very discouraging.
Adopting any special needs child should only be considered by those parents who can sincerely live up to the stress and financial strains that will be associated with the treatment options.
In other words, adopting special needs children may be in vogue, but much like weddings, there is the whole business of marriage after the glitter fades away. (does Mommie Dearest ring any bells?)Once the child is home with you and suffering through the adjustment process and clubfoot treatment process, and the whole being-a-child-upsetting-your-tidy- applecart, the honeymoon could very well be over if the parent has not committed himself and herself to the long haul ahead of them.
As far as birth defects and deformities go, however, clubfoot could very well be one of the easiest and less expensive to cure.
In the photo above we see a three year old girl adopted from China who has obvious bilateral clubfeet. Treatment with the Ponseti Method brought her feet around to normal. True, this child did have surgery on her feet, but the Ponseti Method's serial casting was used extensively prior to surgery to achieve as much correction as possible, allowing the surgery to be less invasive and more successful.
Treated with the Ponseti Method, an infant with no prior treatment could look forward to a 95% chance of growing up on normal, healthy feet.
Older children to around age 3 can also look forward to excellent results depending first on how severe their clubfoot is, and secondly, what kind of treatments the child may have undergone in his or her home country prior to the adoption.
A good rule of thumb might be this: If you are planning to adopt a clubfooted child and the child has had no prior treatment, wait until the child is home with you then start treatment with a physician who is highly skilled in the Ponseti Method. Your best plan would be to arrange for travel to Iowa City, Iowa to see the specialists at the Ponseti Clubfoot Clinic which is the mecca of clubfoot treatment worldwide. If the child's home country / orphanage suggests starting treatment prior to the adoption being finalized, refuse if you are given the option.
Poor treatment in the form of improper casting and/or surgery can do much more harm than no treatment with this common birth defect.
Aside from the University of Iowa's Clubfoot Informational website linked above (Ponseti Clubfoot Clinic), a prospective clubfoot adoption parent would be wise to read the Global-HELP booklet that is available for free on line which includes a more medical version and a "parents" version. Both will help a prospective parent understand this birth defect and the treatment options available.
As with any potential special needs adoption, a parent should do extensive research and be well versed regarding the facts as well as the treatment expected surrounding the birth defect the child suffers.
Finding Financial Help to Assist with International Adoptions
It is unfortunate there is so much red tape to wade through when willing families are eager to take these special babies in to their homes and hearts. Financial road blocks often stop the process cold, leaving another child homeless, growing up with out the love of a family. If you or a loved one is attempting an international adoption of a special needs child, there are those who have paved the way before you.
One such parent is Joyce, the proud mother of the little girl from China mentioned at the top of this page.
She writes: Please feel free to promote the fact that Allison came to our family by adoption and I'd be happy to talk to anyone about that and adopting an older child.
Unfortunately we didn't discover a lot of this assistance till we had gone way in debt with all the airline tickets, travel, medical, and all after just paying for a second adoption.
I was told NO so many times by supervisors as well as regular workers at the state that we didn't qualify (for financial assistance) and spent months trying to when my husband finally said to stop as it was taking too much time and wasn't worth it.
When someone asked me how we were doing it, I said you just figure out a way, and that's why they have home equity loans which is what we had to do. We know better now, and I want to help other families get the help they are promised and that they deserve to bring these babies home to loving families.
I don't want to see another family have to go through that financial stress so I tell everyone I talk to about it. I tell them from the beginning not to stop and not to accept no for an answer.
I would like to help people get financial help if needed for the medical needs during a child adoption process.